Since my birthday...

Gile ar...tak tulis pape since my bday. Macam2 jadi actually, but have really no time at all to tulis pape.

3 hari lepas my bday, is the day I wrote my last post. Lepas tu je, busy nak mampos dengan my wedding. Wedding is on 10.11.12, we chose this date last year lagi tau. Haha. The best date for us I think. No any feng shui but juz a nice-to-see date. So grateful it is finally happened on that date.

10.11.12 - Akad nikah buat kat Surau Seksyen 3, Shah Alam. It is so simple but so beautiful. Yang paling beautiful is, sekali lafaz bro!! Hahahaha. Alhamdulillah.. Tp my wifey pun beautiful. Juz dat honestly I dun really like her make up on dat day. Hahahahaha...sorry. Nvm, nnt i cover balik kat komen I psl kenduri.

Akhirnya, kami sah diijabkabulkan dengan satu lafaz nikah..

Lepas sarung cincin..

Aku lak pegang bunga. Wife punya pasal, layannnn je. Hehe..

11.11.12 - ..is our reception. Kenapa sehari lepas akad nikah? Sbb ktorg wat kt Fraser's Hill. Juz macam ktorg punye pre-wedding photoshoot, ktorg love sgt dgn bukit misteri ni. So, nak semadikan kenangan perkahwinan ktorg kat cni. Rite after akad nikah, balik rest jap and packing and terus gerak ke Fraser's Hill petang tu jugak. 

Esok tu ade 2-3 kali hujan, maklum la, musim kan skrg ni. Since majlis resepsi ni wat kat garden with "English Garden" theme, hujan aritu tul2 wat tempat makan tu becak and berselut. So sorry to all guests. Xde sorang pun I think yg escape that mud, so went back with muddy pair of shoes. Deep apologize. But I hope everyone enjoy the wedding. 

Ktorg pun sgt2 nak ucap Thanks, Thanks, Thanks sgt3x to semua yg dtg. Jauh tuuuu, tp u guyz so sporting to datang. Hope u guys enjoy the day, plus jalan2 kat atas Bukit Fraser tu. I Love You All! Muahx...

Wedding at Fraser's Hill

Gambar dgn wife kat meja makan, kiri tu ayah, kanan tu che su..

Gambar dgn kawan2 Vivi yang so cool! Love them..

Me and wife, Nik Evira, had our simple but memorable 3-day honeymoon on the hill (11-13 Nov). Ade la cite2 seram berlaku kat ctu. Maklum la, the founder of the hill, James Fraser, was never found after he is gone in the jungle kat ctu....errrr... Tp tu aku malas nak tulis panjang2 kat cni. Simpan dlm otak dah la kot. Wedding kat Fraser I think is the best make up. Thanks to jurumekap, my bro-in-law's student.

14.11.12 to 16.11.12 - I went back straight to Penang, left my wife in Shah Alam with her family, I am sooooooooooo freaking busy. I had really less time sleeping. Went everywhere with my other family members, preparing for the day. Dah tu plak, time tu jgk la is the race kit collection utk Penang Bridge International Marathon 2012.  I registered for 10km, and plan to run in my wedding costume. Yeah, I am doing it. 

17.11.12 - English Wedding theme..for me it's so epic. Ktorg punye kenduri ni at night. Bile masuk hall tu, lagu background is "A Thousand Years - Christina Perri", filem Twilight punya OST. Hehe. We both love that song. Malam wedding tu, me and my brother tak tido langsung, dok wat video utk ditayangkan malam tu. Actually aku tlg2 supply bahan utk video tu je, ye la, dah kenduri aku. Yang wat video is actually adik laki aku, Raimi. Power die, maklum la, engineer. Tgk la video kat bwh ni.

Picture with my family. Cantek tak?? Cantek tak?? Hehe..

Kawan2 yg dtg ramai2 all the way from KL. Thanks geng..

18.11.12 - Penang Bridge Run....Dengan busynye the last 3 days before kawin, plus tido kul 3-4 malam kawin tu sbb buat video dgn adik, plus busy pagi wedding tu, plus tido lambat malam lari tu, still nak lari lagi. Bapak ar penat nak mampus aku. Aku lak tu yang volunteer nak drive gi penang ari tu. So, ape yg jadi, ni la larian aku yg paling teruk skali, my personal worst (PW)! 1 jam 26 minit utk 10km, aku tak penah seteruk ni. Tp xpe la, nak lari dlm wedding costume punye psl. My wifey tggu kat finishing. It's sooooo sweet and memorable. Thanks to mum (bring my wife), and Kudos to my dad yg lari jgk aritu. Die dah 62 years old thn ni! Terbaekkkkk la ayah!

Hasil kerja edit adik pompuan aku, Nabila "10K mencari cinta". Kat bawah tu gambar ayah aku lari dlm kostum baju melayu..

Kawan2 pulak so sporting ikut aku lari. Dorg pakai kostum kerja. I'm so touched..

Lari dalam kostum kawin nye pasal, wartawan paper cina, Guang Ming Daily, interbiu ktorg..

Memorable medal and race bib..

~~Reviving English Persona~~

My Pre-Wedding Photography Session: The post is coming soon...

For those who have heard about my pre-wedding photography session before this and want to see the compilations, please stay tuned to my blog in these few days. I will reveal some photos selected and edited. 

I shared here one. 

I will write the story about our day, and of course lots of photos. 

Thank you for reading.

You love running..but you turned crazy when she is also there with you!

I started to run my first long-distance when I ran my school's cross country tournament. My first external event was at UMNO's Merdeka Run when I was 17 years old. Since then, after I entered university, I had not actively participated in major events, eventhough I still running everyday when I got time to do so. Other reasons being were I'd involved in other sports. While actively joined football & futsal tournaments almost every semester during my uni time, I also played squash, tennis, silat, bla bla bla.. thus, I do a lot of sports easy to say. 

I started to back on long distance running field when I was at my first year in Ernst & Young. Crazy long working hours (which is typical in every big audit firm), has limited my time for sports. Recommended by my friend, Ikhwan, I joined Adidas KOTR 2011, and then actively participate in running, again. 

Why running? 

 1. It's easy for me bcoz they (running events) are alwiz on weekend - Saturday/Sunday.

 2. Low cost of equipment - you juz need a pair of shoe..u can even run naked if u want.

3. Big result (fitness) with less contact with others..plus less risk of injury due to its stable movement.

4. Running events offer lots of goodies and token of appreciation. 

5. Timing chip allows you to evaluate your performance.

After several running events I've entered, there is always one thing I wanna do - to run with my beloved one!

My Fiancee

Frankly speaking, my fiancee is not really into this sport. Therefore, to persuade her, I need to search for the best and interesting event. The first I had in my list was NTV7 Feel Good Run 2012. It seems like an outstanding and hype event for all joined participants. It seems like an event for some leisure runners. Besides, it was organised by the big, popular local TV station, with many goodies. Rate: Excellent choice. 

However, before we ran it on 8 July (as per scheduled), Team Malaysia came out with their running event, Team Malaysia Fan Run 2012, which is in support of the national Olympians to the London Olympic 2012. It happened 3 weeks earlier than NTV7 Feel Good Run 2012, although we only registered after the NTV7 run.

So, 3KM Team Malaysia Fan Run was the first event which me and my fiancee ran together. It is a good feeling, buddy. For the first time in my life, I experienced a heavy rain during the running event. You can see in the picture above, everyone there basah! Lucky dat they wrapped the cert in a plastic bag. 

My fiancee again joined me for running! This time it is 5KM MCS Fun Run. She, who didn't join at first, suddenly registered when she teman me to collect race pack. Thanks to the organiser, KDU, which still open the registration for enthusiast. 

Finally, it's the trademark event for us. The first event we registered together. It's a massive and exciting event. We ran with several NTV7 celebrities on that day for 3KM. We took picture with Rashidi Ishak, Vanida Imran & Aidid Marcelo. I had a good time running with her that day. 

I will run again with her after this. It's for 5KM Pink Charity Run. I also plan to run with her in 5KM Parkcity Run 2012 and Nike We Run KL 10K 2012, but due to pre-wedding activities, we must forget them, at least for this year.

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My Mum

Other than my fiancee, I still can't find an opportunity to run with my mum yet, even I have plan to. Penang Delta Eco Night Run 2012 held only after I went back to KL already. However, I did bring her to Larian Hijau MPSP 2012, but juz to teman me. Hehe.

My Dad

In addition, I will run together with my dad in our Penang Bridge International Marathon 2012. Right now, as you can see the picture below, my dad has started his training by the Penang beach. He is 62 years old now. He was a former coach and manager of Penang MSSM Football team for many years. He is still active and fit. I can't wait to run with him this coming November.

Can you imagine how sports means in my life? Then, can you imagine how's the feeling of doing them together with the one you love. Hehe. I alwiz wanna do something special in my life, and this is one of them. Chaiyok!

My EnGaGEmeNt

I am engaged!

Akhirnya, pada umur 25 tahun 4 bulan 27 hari, aku (Fadhlul Ridhuan) sah menjadi tunang (..je baru) kepada Nik Evira (perMYsuri hatiku). Pertunangan yang berlansung pada 17 Mar 2012, dijalankan dlm suasana yg sungguh ringkas (simple) tp tetap meriah. 

Dengan kehadiran famili aku dr penang, plus adik2 ayah aku (uncles & aunties aku) yg dok dekat2 Shah Alam ni, ditambah dgn famili Nik Evira dr Pantai Timur, majlis yg dibuat di Sek 8 Shah Alam ni sgt best n teratur.

Hantaran tunang ktorg is 5 dulang berbalas 7 dulang. 5 dulang dr pihak aku spt cincin emas + sireh junjung, kain, sejadah, makanan. Manakala hantaran balas dr pihak perempuan adalah spt kain, perfume set, sejadah + Qur'an dan makanan. 

Tema pakaian ktorg adalah biru muda. Cadangan asal warna dtg dr aku sendiri, dan dipersetujui oleh mak aku, seterusnya pihak perempuan. Bagi aku majlis pertunangan mesti la bertemakan warna muda (light), as it works as 'buffer' to wedding event later. Bagi aku x elok la plak kalo kaler tema baju tunang lebih terang dari kaler baju kawin nnt. Satu lg, bg aku, baju akad nikah mesti putih atau krim. Then bile bersanding plak nnt kaler terang. Aku pelik tgk trend skg suka sgt bile bersanding pkai baju putih atau krim. Mcm xde kaler laen yg cantik nak pakai. Nak tiru artis la tu. Ko igt artis tu terer sgt ke? Haha.. Tp pegi mampos la, pedulik ape aku org len punye kenduri. Hua hua. 

Neway, aku sgt heppy heppy heppy skg bergelar tunang org. Yang aku kena faham skg is tanggungjawab dah berbeza. Walaupun xduduk sebumbung lg, tp commitment tetap ade. Aku xleh la nak wat hal sendiri je everytime kan. Tunang kena letak dlm setiap benda aku nak wat jugak. 

Korang enjoy la gambar2 tunang aku k. Thanks to all who support me so far. I love u all.

Doorgift-of-the-day, berserta risalah Yassin...

Hantaran Pihak Perempuan

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Giorgio Armani perfume set

Pewangi (fragrant) bilik tunang, asli lg tuh...

Kitab Al-Qur'an

Kain sepersalinan putih

Pewangi yg sama mcm atas tu, tp dari jarak dekat..hehe..

Chocolate set klasik

Buah-buahan

Cupcake yg sgt sedap

Hantaran Pihak Lelaki

Buah-buahan tropika

Sepersalinan kain bercorak

Muffin buatan tangan akak tersayang

Sejadah

Sireh junjung & cincin pertunangan

Gambar2 lain

Cincin disarung oleh ibu tersayang pada jari Evira

Gambar zooommmmm

Aku dan bunga

'Bunga'ku dan bunga

Aku dan bunga ku...ehehehe

...dengan family aku

...dengan family die

...dengan kawan2 aku dan die

Special message to my fiancee: You're the best ever, n I will love you forever...

Tentang siapa yg aku ada dalam dunia!

sekarang - manusia yang ada dalam dunia aku, perdana menteri malaysia yang x knal pun aku...reject. aku ada nabi MUHAMMAD s.a.w. yg iktiraf aku ni umat dia selagi aku ni Islam. aku ada FAMILY yg aku sayang sgt. dan, aku ada KAWAN2 yg tiap2 ari teman aku dalam idup ni. kongsi masalah aku. kongsi kegembiraan aku. kongsi pengalaman dengan aku. aku minat bola, ade je kawan boleh sembang bola dengan aku. aku minat muzik, ade je kawan yg sembang, dengar muzik dgn aku. aku suka travel, ade je kawan join aku travel. aku ade masalah, ade je kawan yg bermasalah macam aku jgk. hehe! best la hidup ni bila ade kawan. sebab tuh aku sbnar nye xsuka saje2 nk cari pasal dgn kawan2 aku. wei, korang! kawan2 aku sume, kalo aku marah atau makan hati, x lame beb. aku cepat cool. ilek la. aku x dendam. jgn risau sgt. aku hepy je.
aku sgt tak memilih kawan, aku boleh kawan dgn sape2 walaupn bdk tuh satu dunia pulau. and aku akan jaga friendship tuh.
cume kdg2, in case, aku x anggap seseorang tuh hanya sebagai kawan je...i mean, more than that. then, aku xkan consider tuh sebagai friendship pun. aku consider lebih. but, by the time i can see the thing I really want fades away, far from me,aku xleh wat pe. org xleh ckp, "kawan la balik, macam dulu"...mana boleh bai! sebab "dulu" aku x kawan. "dulu" ialah aku sukakan die. Get it??! apa yang aku leh wat skrg ialah mula ber'kawan' dgn die. Not start it 'again', but juz start it. of course, aku nak sangat berkawan dgn orang yg aku pnah kenal. xde nye aku nak bermusuh. cukup la pasal tuh.
nak cite ni...semalam aku 'janji' dgn dua org kawan aku nk pegi PJ pkl 8.30mlm. pastu, pkl 8.20mlm, kawan2 budak umah aku ajak pegi tgk wayang. xkan aku nk tolak aktiviti bdk umah, beb! kami dh la jarang kuar umah sbb sibuk belaja short course, part time lg. then bile ade peluang, tambahan plak, daud dtg cni dr manjung, aku ikut la. pastuh aku nk cancel 'janji' nk gi PJ mcm tuh je! AKU DALAM DILEMA BEB! nk jaga ati sume pihak. dorg dh nk merajuk dah sbb aku tukaq plan last minit. aper yg aku wat ialah, aku join budak umah aku makan KFC, n pastuh, aku xtgk wayang, n ikut gi PJ. aku wat aper yg terbaik waktu tu utk kawan2 aku. biar ape pn korang nk kutuk aku lps ni, aku mintak maaf atas beberapa tindakan bodoh aku. tukar plan last minit, x terus terang, n x join xtvt itu, ini.. mintak maaf sgt2 kpd dua2 pihak. aku just dlm dilema sbb dua2 xtvt berlaku dlm masa yg same. aku pn harap kawan2 x mudah kecik ati dgn aku. aku ngaku kdg2 aku x berape smart dlm wat decision, mgkn sbb tuh jgk aku xde awek sampai skrg. hehe!
tp aku sayang kawan2 sume, sbb kawan2 byk sgt tolong aku. kdg2 aku lak yg xdapat nk tolong korang sgt bcoz of my indecisiveness syndrome that i have... huahua. tu je kot aku nk ckp pasal apa yang aku lihat di dunia sekarang selepas dekat 1 bulan xde post baru. bye.

-LoL-F-Lo-

she said, he said....

she says "once a friend, alwiz a fren, never be in love..."

n I say, "once I'm in love, alwiz be LOVE, n will never be in any friendship..."

shall i simply say that??? hahahaha

suka ati aku la nak ckp apa...

LoLa-FaLo

Ku membenarkan jiwaku
Untuk mencintaimu
Ku persembahkan hidupku
Untuk bersama kamu

Dan diriku untuk kamu
Belum pernah kumerasai begitu

Semua itu telah berlalu
Harapanku palsu
Dan mungkin hari yang satu
Terus ku tertunggu

Di hatiku masih kamu
Belum pernah ku ingin terus memburu

Aku lemah tanpa kamu
Ku inginmu dampingi ku
Aku fahami aku bukan terbaik
Untuk dirimu

Sampai syurga ku menunggu
Sampai syurga ku cinta mu
Hanya satu
Hanya kamu

Ku membiarkan hatiku
Untuk merinduimu
Ku menghamparkan sakitku
Untuk tatapan kamu

Bersamamu harapanku
Hilang dalam terang yang membutakanku

Aku lemah tanpa kamu
Ku inginmu dampingi ku
Aku fahami aku bukan terbaik
Untuk dirimu

Sampai syurga ku menunggu
Sampai syurga ku cintamu
Hanya kamu

Dan segala yang ku ada
Ku berikan semua
Untuk dirimu saja
Ku mahu dirimu
Bahagia untuk selamanya
Biar sampai syurga
Aku menunggu cinta darimu
Agar ku sempurna

Aku fahami aku bukan terbaik
Untuk dirimu
Namun aku tetap aku
Yang terbaik tuk diriku

Hanya satu

Aku lemah tanpa kamu
Ku inginmu dampingi ku
Aku fahami aku bukan terbaik
Untuk dirimu

Sampai syurga ku menunggu
Sampai syurga ku cintamu
Hanya kamu

Lagu: Sampai Syurga
Artis: Faizal Tahir
Album: Aku.Muzik.Kamu
Genre: Rock, Ballad
Tahun: 2007
Edaran: Monkey Bone Records

Exam, Bola dan Cinta!

tak tau la nk ckp lega ke hape.tapi at least dh tinggal lagi dua paper ni, boleh la nk empty kan recycle bin dlm hotak aku ni.blum org len jwb far 600, aku dh jwb dulu.tapi dlm paper len-far450. ade ke paper far450 byk tnye teori.hape kebende nye cm ni.boleh rosak ram otak aku!aku nak ilek.aku boleh rase penatnye otot aku ni.dgn makan pn xcukup.tp tido byk jgk la (kirenye xterganggu sgt la).sape2 yg pandai, ade kaitan x antara study byk, xmakan nasi, sport byk, dgn sakit otot badan???otak x pening sgt pun.xpela pasal tuh.ape yg penting, aku ader 1 hari lg utk study far600 yg paling susah tuh.
malam ni ade match liverpool vs newcastle, aku igt boleh guna masa ni nk ilek kn jiwa ku yg dh karat dek hentakan soalan2 exam ni.semalam manu menang, semakin jauh la liverpool nk keja. aku igt manu jgk menang tahun ni.nak wat cmne, dorg x byk seri. berita baik, pertahanan liverpool, daniel agger dh agree sign kontrak baru dgn liverpool lg 4tahun. alhamdulillah..hehe. gerrard mungkin men balik malam ni n pasal cerita mascherano nk kuar liverpool tuh, jgn risau. dia stay dgn liverpool.hehe.
nak kongsi la sikit, aritu aku tertengok cite monalisa kt tv....3 ke...ria ntah. xigt, tp pelakon dier NASHA AZIZ n hero die, Aqasha.episod sebelum dan selepas tuh, aku xtgk n x akan tgk sbb aku x follow la cite2 cmtu. aku cume nk mkn dpn tv then bukak tv tgk ade cite tuh, aku layan je la.ok la, dlm episod kali ni, nasha tuh(monalisa) syiok kt aqasha.tp aqasha ni dh nk kawin ke, tunang ntah, dgn si budak gedik lakonan raja farah.jadi nasha tuh pompuan yg mengharap jela.dlm episod ni jgk die ade tunjuk yg sorang laki yg 'gile' kn nasha. Gile dlm erti kata GILA yg sebenarnye la.. hehe.xdela, die syiok gile kt nasha la. tp watak die dlm tuh hanya utk ditertawa kan je.hensem jgk mamat tuh tp dh pelakon tambahan kn?? nk wat camne kn?? die syiok gile, die nyanyi lagu utk nasha n sajak kt nasha tp nasha wat bodoh je n gelak2 dgn geng2 die kt mamat tu. mamat tu kenal nasha(bukan nye org gile tepi jln) tapi dh nampak mcm org gile lak. kesian.pastu aku cakap kat pokyek, yg MANUSIA X BOLEH BELI CINTA DGN CINTA.dlm kata len, cinta xbawak kite pada cinta.kita boleh cinta tapi xsemestinye dicintai. tapi byk bende yg boleh membeli cinta n for me, it is acceptable. I said FOR ME. org len, aku xkisah pendapat korang. but for me, it's ok to have that.
aku maksud kan antara objek/perkara/sifat yang boleh membeli cinta:

1. harta
aku tertgk channel E! dlm astro entertainment aritu tentang perkahwinan tom
cruise n katie holmes. yes, tom cruise SGT kaya n katie holmes nampak sgt syg kn
tommy. kalo x kerana harta tommy, blum tentu. tp it's ok, that's the reason why
LOVE comes in that place. as long as there is a LOVE, for me it's ok. tgk cmne
victoria beckham kawin dgn david. ape dier dpt tym aniversary kawin dorg? x ke bende2
tuh yg akan wat victoria tambah sayang kt beckham? money is everything, bukan
zaman sekarang je, dr dulu lg. sekarang ni apatah lg??? so, do not blame dorg yg
materialistik. org yg materialistik adalah yang realistik!
2. rupa paras
of course, bende ni penarik. kita kena jaga penampilan so that org tertarik dgn kita.
pasangan kita (jika ada) akan lebih menghargai kita atas sbb ini. xkire laki ke pmpn.
laki byk ckp pmpn xkisah dpt laki buncit?? ye ke?? pmpn mane korg tanye?? mmg
la btul sbb itu bukan reason utama dorg suke kt korg tp die akan lebih hargai
pasangan die yg jaga kesihatan. yes, of cos, it IS the matter of health! same la pmpn
pn. jgn salahkan laki kalo x suka pmpn gemuk atau pn yang xcantik. bukan dorg xleh
nk suke lgsg, tp diorg x tertarik..jdk susah la. jgn kire nak jadik baik perangai je.
"Allahu Jamil Wa Yuhibul Jamil"..maksudnye, Allah S.W.T. itu cantik dan sukakan
kecantikan. Jadi, jaga penampilan n rupa paras.
sebenarnya ada byk lg aspek yg boleh membeli cinta. n korg pn tau n lebih tau. Kn?? kn?? ini cume dua je sbb xcukup mase. aku nk rehat n tido lepas jwb exam. penat, penat. pusar pun dh balik dr makan, mesti die nk guna internet lak..xpun ak men game FIFA kt komputer daud pn ok gak! tido je la.. k bye...

-LoLa-FaLo-